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Intentional Relationships

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Intentional Friendship™
Is a new companion to the study of Intentional Relationships, now available for you. This handy guide features over 650 questions from the book "Intentional Relationships for Singles", along with insights on how to navigate friendships—drawing from Chapter 10. It’s designed to be portable, so you can easily put it in your purse or backpack. Keep this compact guide at your fingertips for quick reference when you’re out with your intentional friends, helping you get to know each other better.​
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Let me rave about ‘Intentional Friendship’! There is NO better material in which to learn godly relationship-building strategies!  Choose WHO to get to know better. Learn WHAT someone is like. Act .. WHEN it is time to ‘DTR’ (Determine The Relationship)!
​--Jen Fowler, GenesisKC: Where Christian singles may Begin, Belong & Become!

I’ve enjoyed doing the questions; it’s really helpful, especially for me, a guy who doesn’t talk much and has a hard time asking questions.
—Kevin Baker, GenesisKC

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Intentional Women of the Bible 8-Week Study
Have you ever questioned your identity or worth as a woman? Intentional Women of the Bible is an 8-week Bible study that invites you to explore the lives of eight remarkable women who encountered Jesus in powerful, life-changing ways. Through personal stories, biblical insight, and heartfelt reflection, author Kris Swiatocho shares how these women—like Mary Magdalene, the woman at the well, and Martha—impacted her life and can impact yours too. Whether you're single, married, widowed, or somewhere in between, this study will help you see that God has always had a plan for you, is working it out in your life, and will never leave you. Perfect for individual or group study, you’ll walk away with renewed purpose, deeper faith, and a stronger sense of who you are in Christ.

Intentional Relationships for Singles

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Prepare for Love with Purpose and Faith
Intentional Relationships for Singles Workbook is a 12-week Bible study and curriculum designed for singles who desire marriage and want to prepare God's way. This transformative study helps individuals first discover their identity in Christ, understand how God uniquely designed them, and recognize their gifts and talents. Each chapter provides practical and spiritual tools to strengthen all areas of relationships—from family and friends to coworkers, church community, and dating connections. Whether used individually or in a group, this study guides singles toward healthier relationships and a Christ-centered foundation for lasting love.​
“Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a righteous man, and he will increase his learning.“ – Proverbs 9:9 (NASB)

Each Workbook Includes:

• Personal stories from Kris and Dan
• Icebreakers
• Questions for Personal Reflection 
• Questions for Group Discussion
​• 650 Questions to get to know someone better

Plus on this site:
​• LeadersZone
• Free Video Intros
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I am very impressed with the book. The content is rich and comprehensive. The design is clean and fresh. Congratulations on the publication of this important resource. My prayer is that God will produce much fruit as the result of your hard work.
​—Steve Grissom, Founder and President of Church Initiative

Book Launch

Youtube Channel

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“God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them; and God said to them, Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” – Genesis 1:27-28 (NASB)
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Topics Discussed:

  • Your Identity in Christ
  • Gender Roles
  • Understanding the Opposite Sex
  • Blind Spots
  • Boundaries
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Forgiveness
  • Reconciliation
  • Friendships
  • Intentional Friendship™
  • Intentional Dating
  • ​Engagement
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Table of Contents:

Chapter 1: We Got It All Wrong 
(Download Chapter 1 Free)
Chapter 2: Why Relationships Fail

PREPARE - Get Your Heart Ready
Chapter 3: God, Our Perfect Intentional Relationship
Chapter 4: Learning About Yourself
Chapter 5: Overcoming Blind Spots
Chapter 6: Appreciating The Opposite Sex

PLAN - Get Your Approach Ready
Chapter 7: Boundaries
Chapter 8: Handling Confrontation Well
Chapter 9: Friendship
Chapter 10: Intentional Friendship™ and includes 650 Questions
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PURSUE - Get Your Relationship Ready
Chapter 11: Intentional Dating

PROPOSE - Get Your Future Ready
Chapter 12: Engagement
Intentional Friendship™ Questions
Bibliography and Resources
Author Biographies
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"The resources provided in the Intentional Relationships study have given me the tools and prompting to understand my strengths, weaknesses, and spiritual gifts.  I also learned how to appreciate the opposite sex. I was reminded of how God created men and women. We should look at our differences to better understand and grow with each other versus focusing on the conflict those differences can bring. This knowledge has changed my perspective to improve my relationships with others and with God."
​—Sharon Gomez
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