Brand New Resource

Intentional Friendship, a new companion to the study Intentional Relationships is now available. We have put our over 650 questions from the book Intentional Relationships for Singles and how to navigate those friendships from Chapter 10 in this new easy-to-use guide. Put it in your purse. Keep it in your backpack. Have this small guide at your fingertips for easy reference when you are out with your intentional friends as you get to know each other better. ​

12-Week Curriculum

Intentional Relationships is a 12-week curriculum and Bible study designed to help those who desire marriage, prepare first by understanding who they are in the Lord, how God uniquely designed them, including their gifts and talents. Each chapter challenges the reader to work on all of their relationships including family, friends, those they work and go to school with, neighbors, church and those they date. 
“Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a righteous man, and he will increase his learning.“ – Proverbs 9:9 (NASB)

Each Book Includes:

• Personal stories from Kris and Dan
• Icebreakers
• Questions for Personal Reflection 
• Questions for Group Discussion

Plus on this site:
​• LeadersZone
• Free Video Intros
I am very impressed with the book. The content is rich and comprehensive. The design is clean and fresh. Congratulations on the publication of this important resource. My prayer is that God will produce much fruit as the result of your hard work.
​—Steve Grissom, Founder and President of Church Initiative

Book Launch

Youtube Channel
“God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. God blessed them; and God said to them, Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky and over every living thing that moves on the earth.” – Genesis 1:27-28 (NASB)

Topics Discussed:

  • Your Identity in Christ
  • Gender Roles
  • Understanding the Opposite Sex
  • Blind Spots
  • Boundaries
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Forgiveness
  • Reconciliation
  • Friendships
  • Intentional Friendship™
  • Intentional Dating
  • ​Engagement

Table of Contents:

Chapter 1: We Got It All Wrong 
(Download Chapter 1 Free)
Chapter 2: Why Relationships Fail

PREPARE - Get Your Heart Ready
Chapter 3: God, Our Perfect Intentional Relationship
Chapter 4: Learning About Yourself
Chapter 5: Overcoming Blind Spots
Chapter 6: Appreciating The Opposite Sex

PLAN - Get Your Approach Ready
Chapter 7: Boundaries
Chapter 8: Handling Confrontation Well
Chapter 9: Friendship
Chapter 10: Intentional Friendship™

PURSUE - Get Your Relationship Ready
Chapter 11: Intentional Dating

PROPOSE - Get Your Future Ready
Chapter 12: Engagement
Intentional Friendship™ Questions
Bibliography and Resources
Author Biographies
"The resources provided in the Intentional Relationships study have given me the tools and prompting to understand my strengths, weaknesses, and spiritual gifts.  I also learned how to appreciate the opposite sex. I was reminded of how God created men and women. We should look at our differences to better understand and grow with each other versus focusing on the conflict those differences can bring. This knowledge has changed my perspective to improve my relationships with others and with God."
​—Sharon Gomez