Intentional Relationships for Singles Bible Study "Workbook" for Groups (Updated 2026!)

​Prepare for Love with Purpose and Faith

Each Workbook Includes:

• Personal stories from Kris and Dan
• Icebreakers
• Questions for Personal Reflection 
• Questions for Group Discussion
​• 650 Questions to get to know someone better

Plus on this site:
​• LeadersZone
• Free Video Intros
A 12-week group Bible study and curriculum designed for singles, including those dating or engaged, who desire marriage and want to prepare God’s way. This transformative study first helps individuals discover their identity in Christ, understand how God uniquely designed them, and recognize their gifts and talents.

Each chapter offers practical and spiritual tools to strengthen every area of relationships—from family and friendships to coworkers, church community, and dating. Participants are guided toward building healthier connections while establishing a strong, Christ-centered foundation for lasting love.
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The workbook includes over 650 thought-provoking questions to deepen growth, along with “Dan and Kris Say” insights, personal reflection exercises, group discussion questions, engaging visuals, and access to online leadership materials.
Let me rave about ‘Intentional Friendship’! There is NO better material in which to learn godly relationship-building strategies!  Choose WHO to get to know better. Learn WHAT someone is like. Act .. WHEN it is time to ‘DTR’ (Determine The Relationship)!
​--Jen Fowler, GenesisKC: Where Christian singles may Begin, Belong & Become!

I’ve enjoyed doing the questions; it’s really helpful, especially for me, a guy who doesn’t talk much and has a hard time asking questions.
—Kevin Baker, GenesisKC
“Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a righteous man, and he will increase his learning.“ – Proverbs 9:9 (NASB)

Topics Discussed:

  • Your Identity in Christ
  • Gender Roles
  • Understanding the Opposite Sex
  • Blind Spots
  • Boundaries
  • Conflict Resolution
  • Forgiveness
  • Reconciliation
  • Friendships
  • Intentional Friendship™
  • Intentional Dating
  • ​Engagement

Table of Contents:

Chapter 1: We Got It All Wrong 
(Download Chapter 1 Free)
Chapter 2: Why Relationships Fail

PREPARE - Get Your Heart Ready
Chapter 3: God, Our Perfect Intentional Relationship
Chapter 4: Learning About Yourself
Chapter 5: Overcoming Blind Spots
Chapter 6: Appreciating The Opposite Sex

PLAN - Get Your Approach Ready
Chapter 7: Boundaries
Chapter 8: Handling Confrontation Well
Chapter 9: Friendship
Chapter 10: Intentional Friendship™ and includes 650 Questions
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PURSUE - Get Your Relationship Ready
Chapter 11: Intentional Dating

PROPOSE - Get Your Future Ready
Chapter 12: Engagement
Intentional Friendship™ Questions
Bibliography and Resources
Author Biographies